Hi there Cindy...sorry to hear your story.

Let me ask you a question;
Being that you're working as an insurance agent, can't you get a good healthplan through your employer?
Here all insuranceworkers will get very good deals on cars, homes, boats and travel.
Health is not an issue being that health-coverage is included in your income-tax, and therefore free. 

Dear Natalie.

I'm truly sorry to read your story, even though I know that your story is unfortunately only one of many thousand similare stories.

I do feel that you and your family have been hit hard lately, but let me tell you that your desicion on leaving your marriage was totally correct. I'm almost sure (based upon your 10 year long marriage) that he was an almost perfect man in your life, but him making that desicion concerning your son was totally ego-sentric and wrong. And for that, he lost! Not you..

I gather that you are familiare with the term "a fighter" being that you have survived cancer, and this will be your salvation. Prayers might help, thoughts from other people might assist, but you and you alone will perform miracles with your situation.

I do not know if your electricity is cut of yet/still, but I write this message as if all was good for you.

The Lord might help with many things and problems, however The Lord does NOT bring you any solution or relief. This is your own self that must correct. The Lord will only provide the means to correct a problem...meaning The Lord will never make you a warm meal. Nor will TL buy you a cup of coffee at a coffee-shop or likes.
TL will however grant you psycic strength, enabeling you to correct the problem yourself.

I will hope and pray that you and your family will have better luck before too long.

Wings

Dear lashandared.

I'm sorry to read about your unfortune.
Right of...I am unable to help you with funds, and even though this might be totally out of the question for the time being, have you concidered moving?

In most countries in Europe you would have free medical, and in some countries also free dental.
Maternaty-leave is paid in full for up to one year, and if your illness requires warmer climate than what's in your country, the government will send you to e.g. Spain, Mediterranien, Malta, Turkie or likes for only a small fee.
In most countries in Europe work is available, education is good and lots of americans have already discovered this fact, and is now living in most major cities.

Even though this might be impossible for the time being, it most certainly could be well worth conciderating.

All the best to you and your child.

Wings.

To all...I'm really sorry to learn about your loss, both cash-funds and Kathrina...really I'm sorry.
And believe me; I do understand desperate acts from desperate people, but...

At an early age, I learned that if it sounds too good to be true, it most of the times are.
Meaning, if I came up to any of you out on the streets and offered you my home, car and wife for free...BUT you would have to give me US$ 389,- to cover the county paperwork...would you believe me? Probably not, but you would have been tempted to try right?
Now think for a minute; how many of you have had to pay any fees for applying to a certain employment, or for that matter applying for a loan in a bank? I'll bet ya none!
Why would you even think to believe a stranger hiding behind a e-mail adress and nothing else?
Specially when that person or company's mail-adress end on @gmail.com or @yahoo.com @or hotmail.com?
All of you know that these email-providers is free, virtually no safety and minute control as to wether Willy Wonker truly IS Willy Wonker and not Samantha Scamar Tist...!

My brother also lost a lump sum to these Nigeria-scams and he was actually concidering going over there to kick some nigerian ass, however we managed to stop him virtually on the steps leading into the airplane!
Now why did he lose his cash you might ask? Well, he's an educated guy, he has an education as an airline traffic-pilot (ATP) and applied work in a Nigeria-based company. These companies in Nigeria co-operates with the scammers, feeding them with personal details and other info.
At present Nigeria is a beehive of scammers and likes.
Some of them will provide you with contacts all over the world...e.g. mr. Smith in Boston, dr. Thor Soe in Mass. and mr. Harry T Hun CEO in Sweden...
Strangely enough all the above mentioned (example)names have also email-adresses ending on said Yahoo, Gmail or Hotmail.
If all this don't keep you from wondering, try to Google their names or phone-numbers. Usually you will get multiple hits noted as SCAM.
If you, in some minute chance of luck, don't find anything on them on Google, wait for a week and try again.

Sorry people, I'm not patronizing any of you, I'm just suprized everytime I hear about people being scammed of these a-holes.

Best of luck, Wings.

Hiya all.

Well, how do I introduce myself?

First of, I'm nobody and everyone...meaning I do not have a familiare name or face, but I have lived for a few years now, and during I have battled most fancy twitches and turns life has to offer.
On the basis of that, I like to think of myself as one that might lend advices and support to others fighting the same battles I have fought (and won)!

Most important to remember for all, no matter what the struggle is about; there's almost always a solution out there.

Looking forward to getting to know new folks...  ;o)